Lazy Make Love After Married YearsAdmin - Health
While still a newlywed, lovemaking activities can always be awaited by a married couple. But after years of marriage, sexual desire is no longer exciting. In fact, often a husband or wife is lazy to make love. What is the cause?
The lazy topic of making love is a problem that is often asked by readers in the Sexology Consultation rubric. As experienced by Nelly, women married 33 years old. Doc, I am a housewife who has been married for 10 years and already has 2 children. I want to ask why I have no desire to have a husband and wife relationship because I have never felt anything related and I always feel very painful. Is that my sign of frigidity and has not loved my husband anymore?
Dr. Andri Wanananda MS explained libido and decreased lust for husband and wife are understandable. Because, marriage that has been established for 10 years often creates a feeling of being bored for having sex. However, the loss of sexual desire should also be watched out as a sign of chronic diseases such as diabetes, high blood pressure, and high cholesterol levels that can cause neuropatia, until the sensitivity of the nerves of the genital organs is disrupted. It becomes the initial cause of the innervation of the body to be hyposensitive.
"You and your husband need to work together to overcome the saturation factor by trying various variations of making love and stimulating the most sensitive zones of the body to trigger sexual arousal that can be done during foreplay until the vaginal lubrication reaches its optimum. "It can be done and the penis penetration can be done which will arouse a sense of pleasure" fantastic "and women will not feel sore when making love," advises Dr. Andri who is a member of the Indonesian Doctors Association and a member of the Indonesian Sexology Association (ASI).
Women who have performed a surgical removal of the uterus (hysterectomy) often complain about the loss of desire to make love. Because this action seems to have an indirect effect on women's sensuality. This can be caused by an imbalance in hormone levels (estrogen, progesterone, oxytocin). The function of these hormones decreases against erotic zones that make women sensitive in the process of reaching peak pleasure (orgasm).
"Pay attention to women's physical fitness to always be excellent by regular physical exercise accompanied by a balanced diet. Especially for women who have had a hysterectomy, they don't deny that stress will occur. As a male partner, they are required to give love "It does not cause psychological trauma to women," advises Dr. Andri, who is also a lecturer at the Faculty of Medicine at Tarumanegara University.